Monday, April 18, 2011

Caution: Steep Incline

Despite the cuteness that regularly pours out of my children, we are in a tough parenting zone.  In an instant, about 2 months ago, Owen got more difficult...than usual.  And so did Asher.  They started playing together better, and they got a lot more blatantly disobedient.  I assume this correlation is for a reason, but I don't quite understand the developmental details.  All I know is that Owen is testing every boundary, and the angrier and more impatient I get, the less obedient he gets.  I think we both could learn something in this season, but neither of us have yet.  Asher is not only into everything, but he is throwing really full-blown tantrums when thwarted, has started throwing things when he's mad, and the best...for the last week...NOT wanting to sit in the high chair, and spitting food.  Maybe it's just because Reuel was out late a few nights last week and has been completely occupied with bathroom renovations this weekend, but I am just a LITTLE burnt out right now.  Reuel and I both have a lot on our plates this week, and the kids don't seem to have a bit of flex in them.  Oh, how we are ready for our Texas vacation.  On the other hand, why does a food-spitting demonstration always start right before a trip to the grandparents' house?! 

I was so at my wit's end this morning, and laid into Owen with some harsh words that were no help to the situation.  He graciously forgave me, but I was still in a little funk until this cartoon passed my computer screen.  Probably not that funny to most, but this is so close to our bedtimes around here that combined with my sour mood, I just couldn't stop laughing, and it turned me around.  Praise God for the gift of humor!

2 comments:

lsm said...

But do they get into trouble together when they play? Today Lachlan and Zayn thought it would be fun to stomp grapes -- all over the kitchen floor. Chris cleaned it up, I mopped three times, and it is still sticky...

Lauren said...

Wow. That cartoon made me laugh, too! Sometimes you just need something like that to deflate the pressure and stress. Glad you were blessed with a laugh on a hard day.