Update

Eden's done a little better the last couple of days!  At least, I can put her down for naps after she's deep.  Still have to find a way to get her to that point multiple times/day while taking care of the boys after mom leaves...that will take some luck...but getting some sleep under her belt has helped with the needing to be held for the whole nap.  Yay!!  At night I've been unusually permissive and need the sleep badly enough that I've let her sleep in the crook of my arm for one session of the night.  Funny, if she's in the baby bed (which is inclined, fuzzy and quite cozy) she might sleep for 2 hours.  Last night, I tucked her in my arm at 2am and didn't hear from her til 6:30am.  Wow, that felt good!!  But how can she tell she's next to me?  Is is just the warmth?  She's not near enough to hear my heartbeat...interesting...

Commence spoiling of youngest child :}  Actually, not so different from Asher at this point (of course, he's arguably pretty spoiled right now too...)